Comments on: To Love Oneself http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/ Chinese in English Thu, 02 Feb 2012 02:46:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Gijo http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-497 Gijo Fri, 08 Feb 2008 11:29:43 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-497 "Because the feelings was changed, the passion was gone and the enjoyment was replaced by that with other person." The world changes. Love changes. Everybody changes. Love is not eternal. When the one you love changes, you must change as well. If you didn't notice the change or you didn't want to change, he/she moves on, and you get lost. "Because the feelings was changed, the passion was gone and the enjoyment was replaced by that with other person."

The world changes. Love changes. Everybody changes.
Love is not eternal. When the one you love changes, you must change as well. If you didn't notice the change or you didn't want to change, he/she moves on, and you get lost.

]]> By: Lisa http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-484 Lisa Fri, 01 Feb 2008 12:01:22 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-484 Oh，yes! Kai, Thanks for your correction! Oh，yes!

Kai, Thanks for your correction!

]]> By: Kai http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-480 Kai Fri, 01 Feb 2008 09:54:22 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-480 I think you mean <a href="http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&safe=off&q=To+love+oneself+is+the+beginning+of+lifelong+romance" rel="nofollow">Oscar Wilde</a> (everyone's favorite British hedonistic homosexual), not Wills Wilde. I understand his quote as representing hedonistic narcissism that has little to do with a person's affections or relationship to anyone else but themselves. I think you mean Oscar Wilde (everyone's favorite British hedonistic homosexual), not Wills Wilde. I understand his quote as representing hedonistic narcissism that has little to do with a person's affections or relationship to anyone else but themselves.

]]> By: Lisa http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-474 Lisa Sun, 27 Jan 2008 08:40:35 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-474 Hi, Max, I think we are talking about different things, even though the two things are conjoint. What you mean is to love other, say your lover, you wife or some woman, while what I mean is to love oneself, so called "Zi Lian" in Chinese Pinyin. That is why two lovers could fight as Zhang and Hu. If Zhang Loves Hu better than he loves himself, He would not turn to other woman, who makes Zhang feel better than Hu did. And if Hu loves Zhang better than she loves herself, she would not do that battle. She might simply keep her love to Zhang forever, as you said above... Is it logical? Hi, Max,

I think we are talking about different things, even though the two things are conjoint. What you mean is to love other, say your lover, you wife or some woman, while what I mean is to love oneself, so called "Zi Lian" in Chinese Pinyin.

That is why two lovers could fight as Zhang and Hu. If Zhang Loves Hu better than he loves himself, He would not turn to other woman, who makes Zhang feel better than Hu did. And if Hu loves Zhang better than she loves herself, she would not do that battle. She might simply keep her love to Zhang forever, as you said above...

Is it logical?

]]> By: Max http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-473 Max Sun, 27 Jan 2008 05:10:20 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-473 Hello, Lisa. I kinda disagree with you. I think love is one's faith, and love is only. If one day my only love disappeared or something unhappy happened, I think what I'll do is keeping my love for her. Hello, Lisa.
I kinda disagree with you. I think love is one's faith, and love is only. If one day my only love disappeared or something unhappy happened, I think what I'll do is keeping my love for her.

]]> By: Lisa http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-438 Lisa Sun, 06 Jan 2008 14:31:02 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-438 I got you! I knew this but didn't do due to carelessness, lol! I got you!

I knew this but didn't do due to carelessness, lol!

]]> By: Aw Guo http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-437 Aw Guo Sun, 06 Jan 2008 14:26:08 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-437 anyway, Lisa, you could just "Reply to this comment" :) That makes the comments more clear! anyway, Lisa, you could just "Reply to this comment" :)
That makes the comments more clear!

]]> By: lisa http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-436 lisa Sun, 06 Jan 2008 12:12:25 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-436 Anyway, It is Zhang and Hu's story that made me think of Wills Wilde's this saying..... But my post is relating one of the most important natures of human being. That is "To love oneself". It should be the deep reasons for a lot of love stories... Anyway, It is Zhang and Hu's story that made me think of Wills Wilde's this saying.....

But my post is relating one of the most important natures of human being. That is "To love oneself". It should be the deep reasons for a lot of love stories...

]]> By: Aw Guo http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-435 Aw Guo Sun, 06 Jan 2008 10:43:02 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-435 libido :) Zhang Bin and HuZiwei's story is so complicated. No one knows what happened. And even if we know something, we cannot judge it. For good or bad, we can only judge ourselves. libido :)
Zhang Bin and HuZiwei's story is so complicated. No one knows what happened. And even if we know something, we cannot judge it. For good or bad, we can only judge ourselves.

]]> By: Lisa http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/comment-page-1/#comment-434 Lisa Sun, 06 Jan 2008 10:22:05 +0000 http://www.ifgogo.com/43/to-love-oneself/#comment-434 I think of this thesis due to the story of Zhang Bin and Hu Siwei... I think of this thesis due to the story of Zhang Bin and Hu Siwei...

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