Happy Single's Day!

Today, I'd really like to introduce a very funny festival in China – The Single's Day(aka 光棍节). It's Nov 11, the famous Single's Day in China - a festival for single person 'invented' by some Chinese college students. (They picked up Nov 11 since 11-11 have so much 'single's)

The first time I knew this was in 2002. My freshman year in HUST. I do remember that night, after lights out, guys in our apartment started to shout and throw stuff outside the window to celebrate (in fact they are just having too much hormone #lol). Luckily our apartment was just next to a girl's apartment and they even shouted back. Then some of the guys got extremely excited and as you may guess – they almost threw all the stuff in their room then could throw, including a CRT monitor!! Hoho…no one had a good sleep that night…

Why Chinese people are so creative on this? I think, in western countries, people fall in love and even have sex at a much younger age than us. In China, due to our restricted traditional culture and college-entering pressure(actually very stupid and time-wasting education program), it's really hard to think about love in high school. So when the boys and girls enter a brand new pressure-free place, they would really find some way to change their poor life.

Frankly I'm really too old and too 'sweet' to celebrate, but Single's Day is really a good festival created by Chinese college students, so let's bless the singles :)

If I Wanna Get Married

If I wanna get married before 27, I prefer to get engaged half a year before the wedding. Of course, I surely want to be with the guy at least one year in advance before the engagement. Before we start our relationship, I need a few months to get to know him and make sure I really like him. A season to two seasons time will be okay! In this case, which means, I need to meet the guy by the time when I’m 25. However, the problem is how to find my Mr. Right? I’m 23 now, and there’s only one more years left.

I’m not worry about this and no rush for this too… I haven’t think about marriage seriously right now. I don’t even know which type of guys I want to be with for the rest of my life. In my little heart, I don’t want to get married. What a selfish girl I am! Parents, they all wish their children can find their true love and be happy with their life. They also want grandchildren.

What if my happiness is living my own life? No stress for child, no stress for family financial problem… All I need is to get a suitable job, doing some businesses, earning little money, having trips every year, making friends with whoever I want. That’ll be fun. Yes, it’s my perfect dreamy lifestyle. I know it’s just a dream. One day I’ll definitely be lonely. No friends to share my sadness with, no family to be with in Christmas.... When I get older, I might not be able to see words clearly, I might not be able to do work myself…that’ll be very sad scenes.

Orientation

Today is the first day of orientation, all classmates and professors join together in Anheuser Busch Hall. An introduction to this university and more important, to this law school, was made by the Dean Syvrud. And then Ms. Greenhaw and Mr. Koby briefed us about the coming course Intro to US Law & Methods. Dean Keeting, Ellis and Glumsky gave us precious advices on how to select courses, like JD’s first year course or upper-level course etc.

The Dean of LLM program, Dr. Shoresman and all the other professors of Washington University law school are really trying to speak English as simple as we international students can understand. I highly appreciate their effort, mention that Ms. Sarah, who explained all the email from the entire LLM class of 2010, without this lady, I can have a chance to be in Wash U.

I found it’s still some kind of cannot follow the native English speaker, especially conversations between natives. Ms. Greenhaw kindly told us that it’s ok, and told everybody not to be shy, speak a lot, write the assignment on the time and hand it in. It will take a month to get use to native speaking English. Mr. Koby added that do not forget to join workshop specially with US students in the courses. These advices seem useful, and I gonna try them all later, let’s see.

Also, I make some new friends, Pong from Thailand, who is interested in Chinese culture. He knows the historical character like Wu Sangui and Chen Yuanyuan. This guy is funny. Dr. Luo Wei, the lecturer from Quanzhou, China, JD&MLIS, will meet the class tomorrow. I am looking forward to his research lab.

Though all things are fresh and funny, now I have to deal with the case reading assignment for tomorrow. Yep, keep reading cases and cases, the Dean said we'd better quit Facebook and Twitter. That's OK.  Haha, except for these books which I cannot running from, life on this campus would be a joyful time for me, I believe.

Visit to Birthplace

So nice that we three sisters who were born in Nanjing had a good time in last May to visit the old place where we lived after birth...

That is a big courtyard where it was Kuomintang's general headquarter of  combined service and then after liberation, PLA Nanjing military Region Political department used it as dormitory in early 50s..

Here is my picture sorted out for memory: 

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 This is the old building where we lived, now  is also dismantled. This picture was taken by dormitory manager in 80s last century.

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 We three sisters, each was born in 1950 (Me, in the middle), in 1952(The right one) and in 1954(The left one). More than half century passed. Time really flies! 

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 Standing at the Nanjing Yangtze River Bridge, we were still holding on the hope and wishes of life. 

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Xuanwu Lake, a famouse park in center of the city. Inside Xuanwu Lake are 5 isles that are suitable for a scenic walk and contain many small tourist attractions such as Lama Temple, small amusement park rides and the "Temple of Xuanwu Lake God."  We used to visit Xuanwu Lake as our home was near it. 

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We were very happy back home with mother after visiting our birthplace.  We have experienced a lot and got to know what life was and now we still like to take an optimistic attitude towards future. As long as there is hope, there is life! Let's smile all the days!

Hope you would share my happiness!

China blocks Google on June 24, Wednesday(Later unblocked)

Update: Google is now unblocked. I am sure it's blocking rather than "technical maintaince" since it's working fine with proxies.

Now, Google is almost totally blocked in China. A lot of its products, like Google Reader, Google Mail(GMail), Google Code... is not accessible in mainland China.

What a shame for us. What a shame for the stupid kommunist!

Twitter is blocked in China finally!

After Facebook, Youtube, Plurk, Twitter is now finally blocked in China. Though people have predicted this and I know it's sooner or later, it still make me so sad.

I am a super fan of Twitter and I have got nearly 4000 followers, 70% of which are from mainland China. Now I cannot talk to them and nor can they talk to me. some of our authors and readers are also very active in Twitter.

What a stupid censorship! What a shame!

FYI:

  1. In the "China Twitter user investigation" I made few weeks ago, more than 70% twitter users from China said they'd keep using Twitter with proxy servers. Only very few of them would consider to join other twitter-like services in China.
  2. Wikipedia is also blocked today!
  3. Bing.com and Live.com are also blocked!
  4. Almost all the Chinese twitter users are spreading #FUCKGFW, #FuckGFW and #fuckGFW around and it soon became the hottest Trending Topics couple of hours later!

Great Adages Selected from Master Sheng Yen

I went to south China with 2 sisters for about 2 more weeks and when I came back home I got a pps file from a friend, on which there are great compassion and vows.

They come from the most venerable master Sheng Yen, who was the founder of Dharma Drum Mountain and passed away on 9 Feb, at the age of 80. I select 10 of them, which are both in Chinese and English,  to share with other friends here, as I think what Master Sheng Yen said is definately right and practical in life. I wish you would like and keep them!

  1. 忙而不乱,累而不疲
    Be busy but happy, and tired but joyful
  2. 应该忙中有序地赶工作,不要紧张兮兮地抢时间
    Work swiftly in an orderly fashion; never compete with time in a nervous flurry.
  3. 人生的起起落落,都是成长的经验
    All the ups and downs of life are nourishing experience for our growth.
  4. 山不转路转,路不转人转,人不转心转
    If the mountain won't move, build a road around it. If the road won't turn, change your path. If you are unable to even change your path, just transform your mind.
  5. 不用牵挂过去,不必担心未来,踏实于现在,就与过去和未来同在
    There's no need to be concerned about the past or the future. Live fully in the present and you are connected with both the past and the future.
  6. 智能,不是知识、不是经验、不是思辨,而是超越自我中心的态度
    Wisdom is not knowledge, nor experience, nor dialectical excellence, but a selfless attitude.
  7. 担心,是多余的折磨;用心,是安全的动力
    While worry fuels unnecessary torment, carefulness breeds security.
  8. 超越死亡三原则:不要寻死,不要怕死,不要等死
    To transcend the suffering of death, keep to the three principles: never seek death, never fear death, and never wait for death to come.
  9. 身是菩提树,心如明镜台
    This body is the Buhdi-tree.  The soul is like a mirror bright.
  10. 慈悲没有敌人,智慧没有烦恼
    Devote wholehearted effort without calculating who does or gains more.

Enjoy your Dragon Boat Festival!

What most Chinese fans think about LOST (TV) in China

Some months ago, my friend Elliott Ng from the U.S asked me what Chinese LOST fans are thinking/discussing about LOST. I promised to post something here, and as the season 5 is now finished, I think it's time to share something here with you western LOST fans.

The easiest way to know what Chinese LOST fans are thinking about is to analysis the polls held by hot LOST forums in China. I collected some data from ydy.com, 1000fr.com, yyets.net(Some very popular online forums on foreign, mainly American TV series in China) and some of my friends, shared the results as follows:

  • Most Chinese LOST fans are male, 18-25. Few of the fans are under 18 or over 30.
  • Most Chinese fans think that Kate (42.29%) and Shannon (31.45%) are the most attractive women in LOST. Though Sun is the only main Asian character in LOST, she just got 14.67% votes. Polls held on some other small forums show that there're also a lot of Juliet fans.
  • Most Chinese fans hate Michael and Ana Lucia after SEASON 2. In a vote named "Who do you hate most", Michael (45.98%) and Ana Lucia(20.28%) got the most votes. Ben Linus only got 0.8% votes - I think that's due to the date of the poll (2006).
  • Most Chinese fans think that Sawyer(54.83%) is the most attractive man in LOST.
  • 95.59% of Chinese fans think that Ben Linus is cleverer than Charles Widmore.
  • 93.81% of Chinese fans prefer to watch the original TV (with subtitles) rather than a dubbed one.
  • In a poll named "Which one will Kate choose", Sawyer got 51.37%, Jack got 34.91% and the rest (13.72%) think that Kate would choose neither.
  • In a poll named "Who is the key people in LOST", John Locke got 35.39% in a lead, then are Jack (18.86%) and Walt(15.03%). Ben got very few votes.
  • In a poll named "Who do you want to stay with on that island", Jack got 70% FTW.
  • Most Chinese fans would NOT push the button when the count down reaches the end if they were the LOSTies.
  • Most Chinese fans think Locke or Ben should be the leader. The reason for Locke is "He never complained to others" while the reason for Ben is "He always has a plan".
  • 72.8% of Chinese fans think that Ben killed John for some unknown reasons. 7% think that Ben is just for stealing the information from John.

Though with lots of participators, those results above are the polls since 2005. They should represent the most condition here in China, especially for the past years but not for the current condition and the future. As the TV series goes on, there are lots of new comments on this series. For example, after the Jacob finally appeared in the Season 5 finale, there were also a lot of comments saying that LOST is just another story of "神仙打架,百姓遭殃" (Gods fight, human disaster). And more and more fans started to doubt that the writer of LOST would never explain his show gracefully on a scientific basis.

Though I've been attracted by LOST for so much, I have to admit that Prison Break in China is much more popular than LOST. I don't know why. Maybe most Chinese people love stories like the Shawshank Redemption - They are restricted/censored too much to be so non-harmonized:)

However, there are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand people's eyes, just enjoy the show for yourself :)

(The pictures of Jack Shepherd below are from http://voote.com/)

Live or Die, Together

We were discussing statistics when my American colleague told me about a story of his friend's family. Whenever they travel by air, they break the family up and take different planes. My American colleague thought that this made no statistical sense, that is, the chances of a plane to crash isn't going to change.

However, the chances for the whole family to perish from air crashes do become significantly smaller, considering that it takes all the planes the family members take to crash for the whole family to decease, and I guess this is what makes sense for that family. Yet I have another idea: it would be a tragedy for anyone of the family to survive the accidental death of other intimate members, and it is far more comfortable (at least for me) to go along with my family, alive or dead, which means, taking the same plane would be the 'rational' choice for me, as we can they live and die together.

My colleague laughed hard. He'd never looked at the problem from this angel before. But he admitted that my opinion made sense to him.

And so much as I'd like to generalize for the East and the West, this opinion might be just mine and mine alone. What do you think? Will you device a strategy to outlive your family, or would you rather be with them, for eternity?