Then, what belongs to oneself when one is in love? The woman/man whom one is loving?  No. I don't think so. I believe it is only the feelings, passion and enjoyment of that one during one's loving course.

To go ahead along this thinking, we can understand why one would leave that woman/man he/she loved best before? Why one could betray his/her oath made in hotness? Because the feelings was changed, the passion was gone and the enjoyment was replaced by that with other person.

I am not to say whether this kind of  phenomenon is good or bad. I feel quite confused with it.  On  one hand, I hope all the couples can keep their love and marriage long to the end. On the other hand,  I think people have the rights to update their feelings and passions, so that human being will keep their libido, vitality and creativity.

Alas, then there might unavoidably come the victim of former love.......